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Hierarchical polyamory is a relationship structure where decision-making authority is concentrated in a primary partnership, at the expense of secondary or tertiary partners. This dynamic frequently involves practices like veto power, which strip lower-ranked partners of their agency—an inherently degrading and dehumanizing experience. At Decolonizing Love, we are committed to dismantling hierarchy in relationships because hierarchy is a fundamental pillar of colonialism. Colonial powers imposed